You don’t talk about sex? Wrong! If you talk about your preferences and ask your partner certain questions, you will have the best sex of your life!
Better sex really fast with four intimate questions
Everyone wants really good sex. I want it, you want it. Unfortunately, many people believe that good sex must somehow work by itself. A little moaning, a little caressing, that must be enough. But it isn’t.
Most of us aren’t half as satisfied with our sex lives as we could be. We would only have to do one thing: dare to talk about sex.
What we have to put aside in the process is our fragile pride. Sure, there’s a lot of insecurity about sex. But talking about how we can make our sex better doesn’t mean it was all bad before or that either of us is doing it all wrong. Talking about desires in sex just opens us up to new possibilities for heavenly sex that can make our lives so much better.
That’s exactly why the best bedfellows are the men who don’t cringe at the following sex questions, but are happy to answer them and even ask them themselves….
4 questions that make our sex better
1. what do you love most about our sex life?
These questions can be a nice opening for an intimate conversation. Remind yourselves together of especially positive moments. The good effect: you’ll both get a lot more of the tenderness you love most afterwards.
2. which sexual experiences of your life do you remember most fondly?
This question is a bit nasty, of course, because it forces us to face the fact that our beloved has also had a sex life before us. On the other hand, it gives us the chance to draw new impulses from great experiences. It’s best to talk about former partners without specific names, describing only places, practices and sex positions that you particularly enjoyed.
3. what would your ideal sex life look like?
Dreams can trigger an unconscious power of thought. We just have to dare to formulate our dream once. If you have your goals and those of your lover in mind, you can work towards them in a very concrete way. Free yourselves from your inhibitions and everyday realities and tell in a completely detached way what kind of sex you would like to have and how often. In this way, you can break away from the lowest common denominator that many couples settle on after a few years, and lift your sex into completely new spheres.
4. Is there something new you’d like to try, but haven’t dared yet because it seems indecent to you?
The success of 50 Shades of Grey has proven it: most people have pretty naughty sex dreams. Bondage, whips, dominance – it’s all there. But saying it? It’s pretty hard. Who likes to say, “Please humiliate me during sex, it makes me hot.” But exactly these wishes are the way to extra-hot sex, which becomes the fulfillment of all our desires.