There are things that a woman should rather refrain from during sex, in order not to bring HIM out of the mood…
These 7 things spoil his desire
Men love sex! But some things can spoil some men’s desire for intimacy. What you should avoid if you want nice sex.
1. if you laugh at him
Never laugh at your man during sex. If you laugh at him because he tries to pleasure you with his tongue, you can assume that he won’t do it again for a long time. Even though many men act so confident, when it comes to satisfying their woman, most are quite insecure. Laughing together is ok, even laughing with enthusiasm or just because it is nice, but please do not laugh at your partner because he is not doing something “right”.
2. clear view for the neighbors
Spectators like most men only in porn. When they get down to business themselves, they want to be undisturbed and above all unobserved. Understandable, a woman would not want anyone to watch her bare bottom in action. Often only the thought or the danger that someone COULD catch you or watch you having sex is anturning – very few people actually want that…
3. when you are somewhere else in the head
Let’s face it: we women often find it hard to turn our heads off. But especially when we want to enjoy intimate togetherness with our partner, we should make an extra effort to focus on him, what he is doing and on us and our bodies. There is probably no greater pleasure killer than when he notices that in the middle of action we are thinking about what we must not forget in any case during the weekly shopping…
4. time pressure
Quickies are unbeatable good at the right moment, BUT: In order for all his power to gather in the best piece, a man needs concentrated thoughts. SexSexSex it must rattle in his head. If he always only thinks: “Damn, we have to go and shop right away…” or so, it will certainly be nothing with the bulging piece of splendor….
5. negative comments/jokes about appearance
“Man, your penis looks like it disappeared in the jungle.” Such and similar comments about your man’s appearance or actions are guaranteed to make him back off immediately. Of course, you don’t have to accept lack of hygiene, but if it’s just about looks, better think beforehand if you want to spoil the mood by pointing it out, or if the criticism can wait until you’ve had nice sex.
6. too much toy competition
“Honey, why don’t you use the lube and the vibrator and I’ll get in the mood faster.” Not every man will really get into the mood for sex with this sentence. Men want to make it on their own to get you in the mood. The whole artificial fuss is in the eyes of many men only what for “sissies” who have it alone not on it. Easy are for men only sex toys that give them more power over you, such as a velvety blindfold. If he is allowed to pleasure you while your eyes are blindfolded, he will feel very powerful and will be happy about your trust. As for advanced sex toys, give him a specific introduction if you’ve never tried them together – most men love sex toys, but need to get used to them if they’re not yet professionals in the field.
7. a ringing phone
In the middle of the most beautiful cuddling, the phone rings. Men can’t ignore something like that. “Someone needs me,” they think then and can’t wait to find out where and how they can save the world this time. If you want to have sex in peace – unplug the phone and turn his and best of all your cell phone silent!